From Chaos to Calm : Overcoming my Monkey Mind

Attacking My Monkey Mind: To a WIN-WIN.



Always when I embark on something new which puts me out of my comfort zone, a voice taunts me..

“Writing a Blog!”✍

“Becoming a Life Coach!”🤣🤣🤣🤣 

“Can you do it?”

“Will you succeed?”

“What will people think about you?”

“They might laugh or pass a nasty comment at you.”

“It will surely be embarrassing.!! ”


These questions forced me to think, what if I lose my confidence and crush my self esteem? I metamorphose into an attacking mode, as I breakthrough this awful situation and emerge as a warrior .


I visualized a win win situation.

Now my mind doesn’t talk to me and I talk to my mind.

“Purva! Start it now..❗”
“Purva! Relax, move on and go with the flow.”
“Purva, your effort is on the right path.”

You will surely succeed in the process..!!!!... Either you will learn something new or you will evolve.

Man must suffer to be Wise, shun your comfort zone and slip into the action mode.

You can do it!!!!

Well begun is half done!

I took a deep breath and told myself that, “Probably; there can be a change to my previous thought or a new learning, but until you do not do it you won’t find out.”

As I got myself re-aligned, I write this piece of overcoming the chaos within, I said to myself;

Lets try for a win-win..!!

- Action kills the self doubt,
- If you win, you will learn
- If not, you will overcome your fear..

Which won’t stop you next time from trying out new things.

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